According to the research, preggies are sensitive creatures.

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I totally agree to it.

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I was very upset yesterday. After Mr Lee told me that his mum is not doing my confinement, I was very upset. The reason given is she is not confident in helping me. But I was thinking why can't she inform me earlier and wait till now then she told us that!

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No wonder Mr Lee's cousin kept asking him if we want to engage her confinement lady. I should have guessed it early that his mum is not willing to help. Because many months ago, she kept asking us to find a CL but Mr Lee doesn't want. And I believe his mum sure informed his cousin about it orelse his cousin won't keep asking him.

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So I thought my mum can help me. In the end my mum also said she can't help me because it is very difficult for her to ask for 1 month of off days from her work.

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Then Mr Lee kept saying that I am gossiping his mum. But I am just stating the fact that she is not doing confinement for me and this is not GOSSIPING.

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He said I am ungrateful creature. His mum will brew bird nest for me and cooks dinner for us on some Sundays but my mum never do a single thing to us. And now because his mum is not helping me to do confinement, I am badmouthing his mum.

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The problem is why can't she inform us earlier??? At my current stage, it is super inconvenient for me to look/ask around for CL now.

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So little did I realise I just cried without Mr Lee's knowing.

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I think I better start to look for baby sitter after my maternity leave because I don't want to hear another surprise that she is not confident in taking care of bb.