Complaint

Be prepared that this post gonna be a long complaint!

2 days ago, I attended a Korean makeup workshop with my friend. I bought this voucher via Groupon & since I always keen in makeup, so I want to go for this kind of workshop.

I attended this workshop after work. The workshop supposed to start from 7pm to 9pm. However, it has over-run and ended at 10pm. If I have something on after work, Mr Lee can help to fetch little M back by himself. Sometimes he will either pick me after that or I will take a cab back. However, on that day, his car is spoilt so he cannot fetch little M back himself. So he has to wait at my in-laws' place for me to be back. So by the time I reached my in-laws' place is already going to 11pm. I know it is very late but I really cannot just leave the workshop half way.

So Mr Lee is super angry with me because of this incident. He gives me his bloody attitude by showing his 包青公face and ignore me when I ask him stuff. I already apologise to him and he is still angry with me.

Whenever, he gives me this kind of bloody attitude, I start to 胡思乱想. The word "Divorce" comes to my mind. I was wondering if I keep facing such attitude, sooner or later I sure suffer depression. Last time, when he shows his temper, I am still able to take it because we are not staying together. I just don't talk, sms or meet him. But now is different, I have to face him everyday! So I always choose to ignore and keep quiet. Because I know if I wanna say anything to him, it will be nasty and we sure quarrel till the whole block can hear.

So last night, he took his revenge by going to gym after work. I was at home alone vacuuming the floor & mopping the floor. This is my way to vent my anger. Little M has gone out with my in-laws so she will be back around 10pm.

And this morning, this old man asked me to go and find my own program and he will go gym and fetch little M after his gym.

SO BLOODY CHILDISH RIGHT?

This morning, he said I never thought of him and his family whenever I said I am meeting my friends. He said I have brought so much of inconvenience by doing that. Hello! I don't meet my friends everyday or every week. Perhaps only once a month? And they are different group of friends. I only need to trouble him to bring little M by himself and he can do it because little M will be sitting on the baby's seat. He said I can learn his way, meeting friends after little M is asleep. Hello! My friends don't stay up so late like his friends. He can go holiday with his friends for 1 week and yet I cannot meet my friends after work.

DO YOU THINK IS FAIR?

So conclusion is : It is better that he finds a wife that stays at home every freaking day and take care of kids. And this wife has no friends to meet and no social life so all this problem will be solved.

This is also why I cannot imagine if I have 2 kids. I think Mr Lee is also not prepared because he also misses his freedom after we have kid. Our life has changed after we have kid because our daily life is go work, fetch little M after work and go home zzzz. If his parents are attending rosary group and bringing little M there, Mr Lee & I will have the chance to watch movie or have dinner by ourselves. We only have 1 kid and we only enjoy 二人世界 once a week. Imagine if there are 2 kids, gone case....

Let's see how long does this Mr Lee 气消.